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[Advice] I (18f) need help to fulfill boyfriend’s (19m) roleplay fantasies!

30-Jul-15

My boyfriend recently opened up to me that he would be really interested in roleplay. However, its not my thing really, so I intuitively don't know where to begin. However, since its hot to him, its hot to me! I'd be so down to make it fantastic for him!

I'm looking for tips and suggestions of what I might say or do or wear. I don't really have a great imagination for costume or scenario deas. That being said, I don't want to go over the top because I don't think that a super unrealistic situation could be sexy for me. I don't think that we could pretend to be like a guard and prisoner, because that's just total fiction. Maybe a glorification of something more realistic? I don't know. He seems to be really into us not being ourselves, however, so I'd be willing to try.

He specifically mentioned a service roleplay, like where he was a pizza man.

He also mentioned him raping me, and me raping him. I can easily imagine him raping me, and I love that idea, but I don't really know how I would rape him. Maybe he means domination? I would dominate him but am not sure where to begin. I have no ideas.

He also mentioned strangers. How do I behave as someone who is not me without feeling weird?

Lastly he mentioned he would be interested in photos. Nudies of him, nudies of me, nudies and film of us. Any tips in regards to taking high quality photos of us having sex or myself?

TL;DR: how do I roleplay: strangers, rape him, rape me, and service?

I know its a lot to read and ask. Thanks so much!

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[Advice] My boyfriend’s girly orgasm is a turn off.

09-Jul-15

I like my men manly. My partner is generally fine in this category, except when it comes time to climax. He lets out high-pitched moans and delicate cries, gets very breathy, and he generally sounds like the female in a porn. It's a huge turn off for me and I want to shove him away, which isn't fair at all. But I want grunting, I want deep growls–hell, even silence would be preferable.

Can you guys help me think of an appropriate way to broach this subject? We communicate well, but he can be sensitive in the love-making arena. I don't want to ruin his orgasm by making him focus on his delivery, but at the same time, I'm worried if I don't say something then it'll manifest in an unkind or thoughtless way (I'll blurt it out, I'll actually shove him off next time, I'll scream at his penis, etc).

TL, DR: Boyfriend is a tiger in the sack but a kitten at the finish line. How do I change his purr into a roar?

EDIT: I really hit a nerve with this question! Half of you are telling me to leave him, and half of you think I don't deserve a man. I think I'll choose Secret Option #3, which is: ask someone qualified for advice next time. Maybe I'll turn on The Lion King tonight while we're banging and loudly comment on how sexy Mufasa is. Also, FWIW, nothing should be off-limits for discussion if you're in a good relationship.

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