Hey sexxit.
I recently started a friends-with-benefits relationship with a girl, and have discovered a problem… I can’t come.
Before meeting her, at least for the last year or so, every time i had sex with a woman, i was at least somewhat under the influence of alcohol, and thought that was the problem.
however, now that i’m having more sober sex, i find myself with the same problem. it takes me a ridiculous amount of effort to cum… and the longer i keep pumping away, the harder it is for me to focus on climaxing.
i don’t take any medications, and i never thought of myself as masturbating with a “death grip” as i’ve heard people mention.
what can i do to speed up my orgasm? oral sex doesn’t help because quite frankly, she’s just not that good at it. sex feels great, but i’d really like to be able to finish… it’s pretty embarrassing, as you can imagine.
thanks.
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