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DAE abstain from sex because they need an emotional connection with their partner?

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Basically, I constantly find myself in a position where I am sexually frustrated because I only sleep with those who I have an emotional attachment to. Before my ex, whom I dated for under a year, it had been a little over a year since my last sexual venture. I live in New York, and as a straight man I feel like I should be like a kid in a candy store; not only with the availability of women, but quality as well… but I just can’t commit to bring a girl home for a one night stand, and at times it works against me and further pushes my frustrations. DAE have the same issue, and has anyone found ways to push beyond this to become more sexually free/promiscuous.

edit: thanks for all of the responses, looks like i hit a nerve. i suppose I’m just going to have to suck it up and stick to my scruples, and work towards the things I want, and deal with it until I get there… but I guess nothing good is ever easy, and nothing easy is ever good.

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