I just wanted to come here and say, you are all perfectly fine! Cuming in less than a minute does not make you sexually retarded nor does it make you inadequate. As a gf in a very healthy and amazing sexual relationship with someone who only lasts around a minute, I can tell you that you’re overreacting. Not EVERY woman wants you to go for fifteen minutes! That would be incredibly painful IMO for 2-4x a week!
Here are some ideas that can help you in the bedroom:
A dildo/vibrator. A toy can help your lady build up and cum multiple times before you even penetrate her. Explore with the toys together and find her G-spot and/or how to get her off the best way with clit stimulation. Go with what makes her comfortable. And when she’s exhausted, slip yourself in and finish. Ahhhh, wasn’t that nice. Perfect your oral sex and your handjobs. Once you start a makeout session/sexy time, make her orgasm better with soft strong licks, lubing up your fingers with her juices then going at it (gently), and maybe even teasing her by stopping for a few seconds when she starts getting close to orgasm. (Just no more than 3 times, otherwise it’s annoying.) Communicate. Yea yea you’ve heard it before, but honestly it’s the only way for both of you to feel satisfied. Tell her before hand you cum a little quick so you want to focus 100% on her first. If she’s jacking you off while you’re going down on her and you’re getting close, move her hand away and grasp it. Or move her hand to your hair to grab on to. If you’re going to town during sex and she’s looking a bit bored, reposition her so she can enjoy it. Doesn’t have to be complicated. Just say, “How’s this?” “Let’s switch.” “A little to the left.” Moan of breathe faster when it’s right. Cuddle afterwards and/or joke. Sex shouldn’t ever ever be stressful. It’s a wonderful thing to share and relieves the stress from the day. Sometimes the afterparty is better than the party itself.
I really want you guys to know you’re not inadequate. Care about your partner and his/her needs and everything else will work out just fine. Quit stressing 
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