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Jordana Heat

I thought I would do this writeup for science, as I have never read any similar accounts.

Some time ago, my gf and I got into pegging. I bought a strapon for her to use, and I enjoyed it when she used it on me. It was one designed for women, and was a thong style harness.

In fact, this is the exact strapon. http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Double-Ring-Harness/dp/B002JINP44/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1337396888&sr=1-1

The strapon itself looked pretty sexy in its own right, and over time I got to thinking of how kinky it might be if I wore it and used it on my gf. A lot of people seem to interpret pegging as something of a gender role reversal situation: a girl penetrating a guy, rather than a guy penetrating a girl. But a guy using a feminine strapon seemed to me to also be a role reversal: a guy penetrating a girl with a toy designed for a girl to use on guys or other girls, in effect, “playing the role of a lesbian”. Something within that dynamic just seemed really kinky and intriguing to me and I wanted to give it a try.

I did internet searches trying to find out if people had done this. There were people who used strapons designed for males with erectile disfunction with hollow dildos, and I found one person who used a strapon after a nasty bout of cancer. But these didn’t seem to be similar scenes as the one I’d created in my head. I’m a healthy young guy, and just because it was kinky, I simply wanted to wear my gf’s strapon and fuck her with it like she did to me. I thought it would be fun to get more of an idea of what it was like when she wore and used the strapon on me.

I told her I wanted to try it and she agreed. When it came time, I adjusted the straps, and simply put the front part over my genitals. No “tucking” or awkward folding involved. Penis and balls were held up on my front, from the crotch and front part of the strapon, just as if I were wearing briefs. The front part/base of the strapon pushed against the underside of my erect penis as I pushed in and out.

I initially thought that the pressing of the strapon and harness against my genitals could potentially be uncomfortable during fucking, but that wasn’t the case at all. Although I wasn’t having direct stimulation to the head or anything like that, it was actually pleasurable to have the strapon pressing against the underside of my erect penis and balls, and to have the pressure vary. It was kinky and arousing to think that I was wearing the strapon, fucking my gf, and it was especially sexy to see her enjoying it! I guess it was a similar sensation to just putting your palm and fingers flat against the penis and balls and pressing slowly and firmly repeatedly (but not enough to be at all painful). It’s a pleasurable feeling, but in more of a subdued and less direct way.

All in all, we did this for awhile, and eventually shifted to me taking the strapon off and us using the real thing. It was kinky, enjoyable, and arousing, but probably not something we are going to work into our regular routine. It did not tire me out at all to use it, and if there were a situation where I was finished for the night, but my gf really wanted to continue, I could see this being a fun option relative to anything else I could do to continue her pleasure.

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My GF and I (both 20) have been together for some years now, and we have a great sex life. Being the male however, I usually have the higher sex drive. One night while I attempt to initiate sexy times, she looks at me and says “Man, you’re like a sexaholic!”. That may be slightly true, but I was a little put off, so I proposed we turn it into a game.

The deal was, first one to beg for P in V sex owes the other $20. She laughed, thinking that there was no way I would last more than a day and she was happy to shake on it, smartly saying “Thanks for the $20″.

Not an hour later she was all over me trying to get me riled up enough to beg. It was hard to resist but I didn’t give in. The next two days consisted of her wearing her sexist underwear, lots of heavy kissing and touching and teasing, and lots of her super sexy attempts at making me give in. The trick was, the more she tried to make me give in, and the more I resisted, the hornier SHE became, and by the third day she was desperate. On that night, she gets in bed, straddles me, pulls off her shirt and mine, kisses me hard, and pulls $20 out of her pocket and throws it in my face, right before removing the rest of our clothes and fucking me like crazy. It was just awesome to see the tables turn like that.

Try it sometimes, especially if you (the guy) feel like you always initiate sexy times. For bonus points, use the sex champion victory money to take her out to the movies.

tl;dr: Made a deal with my GF after she called me a “sexaholic” that the first one to beg for sex owed the other $20. 3 days later, she turns into a “sexaholic” and gives me $20

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I am a 21 y/o male and I recently had an experience that made me worry. I’m 21 and sometimes I like to get rough with girls, only if they show that they like it of course. Nothing too crazy; just slapping, light choking, pulling hair, throwing them around a bit, telling them that I’m the boss and talking dirty. Obviously if the girl says she’s not into that I wouldn’t do it but usually they like it.

Anyways I was hooking up with a girl I met at a bar and I was being pretty rough and she was liking it. But then she mentioned that guys who are rough during sex usually end up being abusive to their SOs. This connection has never even crossed my mind, and I can honestly say I would never dream of hitting a girl or being emotionally abusive. In real life I’ve actually been told that I’m “too nice.” Is there any studies on this or correlations between being rough in bed and being abusive in real life?

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So I was signing into my gmail account on my little brothers computer to play TF2 with my boyfriend, and my little brother (who is 19 and graduates from high school in about a week) was still logged in.

He had an email to himself with a bunch of links to some disturbing videos. About 10 different videos where young asian girls (11-13ish) get spanked. In most of them, they’re crying. It kind of looks like child abuse.

He also belongs to a message board called Nyou and has a lot of bookmarks for AnimeOTK. I have no idea what either of these websites are.

A few years ago, he used some diapers and hid them in the bathroom. We found them when they started to smell. Some of the bookmarks indicate he has a poo fetish. In the past, he’s looked at Disney porn (like lilo licking stitch’s ass…) and stuff like ‘older sister changing brothers diaper.’ He said it was just because he couldn’t find real porn. I don’t think he is hurting anyone if he doesn’t act on urges…but a few google searches bothered me. He googled ‘how old is a toddler’, ‘sister spanking her brother’, ’14 year old boy’, ’14 year old boy’, ’14 year old boy’, then ’14 year old son.’ And…then he googled ‘What is Barney’s job on How I Met Your Mother.’

The one that makes me said is ‘how often do pedophiles get married.’

He is 19, going to college next year, has a touch of aspergers, and is very dyslexic. My parents had him tested when he is younger and his IQ is 115.

Should I be concerned? How many of you have deification/spanking fetishes? I love my brother, and I think it is possible for him to have some fetishes (and even pedophilia urges) and still be happy. I also hate that I keep finding this stuff…I feel like I’m invading his privacy.

EDIT: My mother has talked to him about it before. He always uses the ‘I couldn’t find real porn’ or ‘its a pop up’ excuse. My mother is the kind of woman that takes 45 minutes to figure out how to download an email attachments. My father is a fundamentalist baptist. So, my mom talking to him seems to make him defensive.

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First off, me and my girl have amazing sex. Super emotional, lasts 45 min to an hour and a half each ,time always trying new things and switching it up. We do it about 2-3 times a week sometimes more but usually not 2 days in a row just cus she’s sore the next day. She loves it . But I feel like I’m always just like “So…. Wana have sex now?” And she doesn’t like that and frankly neither do I. Iv kinda lost touch with how to seduce her and get her back into begging for it. What should I do to get her into that mood?

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I’m having a bit of a problem here. My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago. I really loved her. She was the most amazing person I have ever met in my life and I was crushed we she decided to end our relationship. Since then I have slept with two other women. Everything goes good in the bedroom up until the point of penetration. Either I’m really hard at first and I just lose my boner mid way through boning or I can’t get it up at all during foreplay.

The whole “I’m still in love with my ex mental block thing” may have something to do with it. I haven’t seen her in awhile and honestly I’m over her from the most part. There are times when I think about her and all that but there has been no contact for awhile now and she is becoming a fading memory…

I’m really confused to why this is happening. I don’t want this to ruin future relationships for me. I’m scared.

BTW I’m a 22M if that makes a difference or not.

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by Brittany Nicol Fabry