Excuse throwaway account. Basically I’m in a relationship where my girl loves dirty talk/being dominated more than anything. Only problem is I’m not a dominant or overly aggressive person, in fact I’ve been called quite the opposite. My idea of being dominant in bed is (and I know it’s a misconception) a douche. She even told be that he had a daydream the other day where my best friend was the main focus just because he’s an asshole and she assumes that means that he’s super dominant. I don’t want to turn into an asshole, no offense to him, but I want her to want me. I want that to be me she sees in her fantasies and not my friend. I just don’t know how to go about it.
Now I know the main thing you guys will say is COMMUNICATION! But that’s the thing, I HAVE communicated. I’ve told her that it’s harder for me to do this and she’s willing to wait, but I still feel uneasy about it. Help me.
And no this isn’t any BDSM stuff, just being in control/her submitting
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