Ok, this is a new problem. The other night, my girlfriend and I were talking, and she was giving me an old-fashioned. Well, she kind of stopped, and looked at my penis and said, “I’ve always thought these looked really weird.” Not out of the ordinary (kind of random, but I see where she can think that). Well, we started talking, and she finally admitted that she really didn’t like my penis and thought it was ugly. I don’t know what to think now. I feel kind of dejected and insulted, and I really want to talk to her about it, but not sure how to go about actually bringing it up. I’ve been recovering from really low self-esteem and thought I had it under control, but this was kind of a hit below the belt (no pun intended). I am also a very sexual person and love all aspects about sex: foreplay, intercourse, exploration, whatever, and she is very inexperienced (only been with one or two guys) so I already knew I would be the more experienced one (which was not a problem). However, I’m starting to feel she doesn’t like sex at all, and that added on top of the whole “ugly penis” thing, it’s kind of eye-opening. I want to add that I really do like this girl and we’ve only been dating for a very short time (about a month and a half) and I really don’t want to be a shallow asshole. But I’m kind of lost for words here. Help?
EDIT: I just wanted to add that she said she is willing to try new things for me, but I’m starting to really doubt that. I may just be over reacting to that, but it’s one thing to want to do things for your SO, and another thing to want to do them for yourself.
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