Hi guys! This is my first time posting onto sexxit (and reddit in general…), so please bear with me!
Basically, I haven’t had sex for a few months, and would like to try having casual relationship with someone for the first time. (Totally novice at this whole thing…)
The thing is, I am attracted to some of my guy friends, but I’d really rather not have things like “yeah, I banged her” go around our circle of friends/workplace.
I know, I know about the whole “who cares?” deal, but I honestly would just like to avoid the drama and stress that would come along with it. I really don’t want people I know talking to me more often because I happened to be intimate with someone else.
Also, I don’t think I am that comfortable yet to hook-up with someone from a party, or bar, so…
Any advice from people who’ve been in the situation, or in general? 
Thank you kindly.
