ok I’m bursting at the seams and need to tell someone, anyone! for about a year i’ve dropped a few hints that i would be into anal and he is very…very vanilla. i love him and vanilla is ok 
been together for 2 years.
last night was sexy time and i felt my SO’s hand creeping down my spine but it was with a purpose. and he stopped just short of my…umm butthole? correct term? anyways. he paused for a second and almost backed down and i told him to do it. and he stuck his finger in. it was amazing. he told me to slow down. *i was on top. so i did and he played around, and i remembered all of the advice from here about talking to your SO. and i told him it felt amazing and was being as positive as i could to get my point across that i loved it. he then told me to get on my knees and he did it from behind. and he played and got me use to his fingers and i don’t think ive had an orgasm that hard in a long time. it was amazing i want to step it up to full on anal. i have some questions. 1) getting a butt plug, will that help relax the muscles to be able to take anal easier? 2) easiest ways to keep clean ive read only the first few inches matter in cleaning back there, and douching is bad period. any advice? 3) lube, best type? IYO? 4)wearing a condom will happen 5) any other advice that could have the first time be wonderful would be awesome!
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