Been visiting my ex-roommate (30F) since new years. First night she lets me (23M) sleep downstairs, last night she offers up her bed. I agree, get into bed (kinda tipsy), she says something like don’t tell people I let you sleep in here. So in my mind, for whatever reason, I’m thinking she doesn’t want anything and so I tried nothing.
She just got out of bed, no pants on, I didn’t even know… FML. Either she is just that comfortable with me or I’m an idiot. Anyone own a shotgun so I can shoot myself on the face!?! She even told me she was cold, my answer “I could go get another blanket.”
EDIT: My ultimate conclusion. Should’ve asked to cuddle. Thinking over the events of the night (ex. making a makeshift bed downstairs earlier so we could watch TV since she hadn’t moved in furniture yet) I was in the clear to try for it. Oooo well it’s just my first asian I missed out on 
EDIT #2: Alright boys and girls… decided to just text her and just asked her because I really wanted to know! Mystery solved… Though still a very confusing situation, and many interesting points of view in here. http://i.imgur.com/nerLn.jpg
Moral of the story. Women are confusing, and I’m a max level friend.
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