So I know this tale is as old as time, but I have a problem with stamina and I’m on the slightly smaller size of average. I also have pretty bad anxiety, which I’m sure is the reason why I can’t last very long. My real issue now is I’m too nervous to meet new girls (I’m a college student) because I’m afraid that once we get down to business, I’ll be inadequate and they won’t be interested afterward. I have no problem meeting and flirting with girls (I’ve been told I’m good looking), but I end up making excuses or ending the flings before they can get to the bedroom because I’m scared that I’ll be laughed out of bed. I’ve had a half dozen partners, but 4 of them were long term girlfriends, and the other 2 were a one night thing, mostly because I came in about a minute, and was too embarrassed to pursue any further intimacy.
Any tips, or advice from men or women about what I can do about this? I’ve tried every method to last longer including kegels, but nothing seems to help. This is having a huge effect on me because I see friends meeting people and having hook ups, but I feel like I’m going to be forever alone or get cheated on because I can’t hold my own in bed. I always do everything I can besides actual intercourse to make sure they’re satisfied, but I get the feeling that it just doesn’t cut it a lot of the time. Women, if a guy couldn’t perform well the first time, would you give him some time to work into a groove and become more comfortable and/or are you okay with getting off other ways?
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