We’re an early 20s couple, together for almost a year, and not only have I fallen head over heels for him but I’ve also quite literally discovered myself (sexually) because of him.
Seriously… I used to be quiet and passive, I didn’t communicate, I didn’t even know what I wanted. I had never had an orgasm except while alone, and would never have considered getting myself off in front of a partner. I had almost no understanding of or experience with foreplay. The list goes on… And that list was despite multiple partners of various experience levels.
And now, here we are! I have discovered fetishes and fantasies I didn’t know I could even seriously think about. We’ve experimented with countless toys and activities, and we’re working on finding a guy, a girl, or a couple for a threesome/foursome
I’ve also come to realize that I have a major fantasy of watching him with other girls: flirting, making out, sex, whatever. In the past I would have gotten depressed just thinking about my guy with someone else, but in my new heightened sexual awareness, fuck it’s going to be hot!
He’s gotten me to break out of my shell to be more communicative and verbal, too
In fact, we have some pretty fucking hot text conversations:
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