I see a lot of “I caught my bf/gf masturbating, how could they? Am I not doing enough?” type post so I’m just wondering…why do people tend to freak out about this? I know for a fact that my SO masturbates, and he knows that I do, but we don’t make a big deal about it. We’ve actually almost turned it into a game of sorts, teasing the other whenever we do.
So, why is there a tendency for people to freak out and assume that they aren’t doing enough to please their partner?
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