The first time I tried a long time ago she knew that she had an odor and was self conscious and made me stop. I will admit it was difficult but I wanted to and would have dealt with it. Up until last Sunday night she would not let me. We have both lost over 100lbs and our eating habits have really changed(her lap-band, me – gastric bypass) and she has lost the odor. She still almost cried when I told her I wanted to(please was asked of course). We both showered since we had scuzzed out over the weekend.
We cuddled and kissed for a little bit and I asked if she was ready. She teared up a little and said, “yes”. So I worked my way down and she seemed to enjoy the first little quick, darting tongue probes. I then tried more of those and humming while putting my mouth over her labia majora and there was no more reaction from before so I looked up and asked – “does the humming do anything”, she smiled and said, “no”. So I did not do that anymore. I used the zig-zag pattern and that garnered a better reaction. I moved away from the clitoris and vaginal opening and kissed all over the place without going to the labia minora and known good zones. I kissed and sucked(and offered a little biting on her inner thighs and then attacked her clitoris again. She came so fast(usually a 10 minute exercise with my fingers(clitoris only) I was not expecting it. She is not a squirter(yet) so I have more work to do. However while I was writing this I was asking her questions about the other night and found out some things – Kissing other places, does nothing for her, clitoris only, we are going to do a 69 soon and the greatest thing I have heard about her sexually in a long time, she played with her own boobs! She tells me she has masturbated before but does not now, which I think should change. She says she is “just fine”, but I think we should do a night where we masturbate watching each other.
Thanks for letting me tell someone. It is kind of difficult to bring up in normal conversation with our friends.
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