I had a threesome with one of my best friends and her boyfriend last weekend. It wasn’t a particularly planned thing – they’d talked about it (once), and she asked me the same evening that we did it. We had a short private conversation about limits because I wanted to make sure that she would be okay – I care about this person, and I don’t want to be blamed if this has a negative affect on her relationship.
Anyway, it was a lot of fun. I hadn’t had sex with a woman in a long time, and she is absolutely gorgeous and very energetic in bed. Her boyfriend was pretty cute too – very laid back and easy to be comfortable around. I don’t usually get a lot from vanilla sex, but this was one of the best experiences of my life.
I’m not just here to brag though. Yes, I had a great time, but I also feel like I did a really great thing for my friend. She was very insecure about squirting, to the point where she didn’t want to have an orgasm because she was afraid she might ruin my sheets. I handed her a towel, told her that I have a water resistant mattress cover, and told her not to worry about it. She was still uncomfortable – so I took the towel back, asked her to lay down next to me, and brought myself to a squirting orgasm right in front of her. She gave me a hug, jumped off the bed, and ran around my room saying “I’m so glad other people do this too!” Her boyfriend said “I told you it’s normal,” but I think she needed to see it to believe it.
She felt uncomfortable receiving oral sex, but going down on me convinced her that it’s kinda fun. Her exact quote was “[Boyfriend], I see why you like doing this now!”
It’s good to talk about sex. Things are more meaningful when they come from people we personally know and trust. We need to be less secretive about sex – we need to share with each other. Having sex with someone or in front of someone can be a really valuable learning tool (and damn, it’s fucking fun). So I’m really glad that I had a threesome. Not only was it fun for me, I think it helped my friend become a lot more comfortable with her sexuality.
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