Okay, so a bit of background. I met my girlfriend about three months ago. We’re both 18. We went on a few dates and hit it off pretty well, then when she graduated, we had sex for the first time at her grad party. It was my first time, but not hers. Many orgasms were had, thanks for the tips sexxit 
However, the 4th time we had sex, she was on her period and I scratched her while fingering her. It was no big deal, but three days later, when we had sex again, she suddenly yelled “ow” and when I pulled out, the condom was all bloody. She was bleeding so badly that she called an ambulance.
At the hospital they told her the scratch was healing when my penis (I am larger down there) somehow tore it off and caused the bleeding. The doctor gave her 1 month before we had sex again, but that was over 2 months ago. She says her vagina is still scarred, and we’re both afraid of having to take another ambulance ride, so we’ve abstained.
About a week after that though, we were watching some movies at night in her basement, when she started playing with my crotch and eventually gave me a blowjob. I asked her if I could return the favor, but she wouldn’t let me; I understood why though, so I thanked her and gave her a massage to compensate.
This continued for about three weeks, where she would tease me, grinding her butt against me, doing stripteases, biting, ect… and it usually ended with me getting head. However, the last time this happened was 5 weeks ago. Since then, she has teased me every time we hang out, yet has not made a single move in order to “finish the job”. At first I thought she was just building up some suspense, getting me psyched up. I thought she was going to be ready to have sex again, and she was getting both of us ready for it. However, when I asked her about it, she said that she simply did not have a sex drive currently. Understandably, I was a bit disappointing, but I liked this girl for much more then the sex, so I wasn’t too concerned.
The problem is that every time I hang out with her, she still won’t stop teasing me in the afternoon/evening, then once night falls, she simply tells me to “calm down”. She has let me masturbate and cum on her butt and back, but I didn’t feel that much pleasure from it. I hope I’m not a bad person for thinking I would be getting some head, or maybe something more after putting up with a day of teasing, but during every drive home from her house I always feel a mixture of emotions; disappointed that she wouldn’t get me off, remorseful when the pain of what I did to her comes back (She assures me it’s not my fault, but I still feel guilty.) But more recently, I’ve been getting frustrated that she keeps doing this to me, and when I tell her to stop, she thinks I’m just being playful.
I liked the teasing for the first week or two, but now it’s become unbearable. I just got home from another night with her. Before going out, she basically pulled her pants down, and gave me a lap dance in her thong. We went to see a movie, and when we came back to her house, I thought “tonight’s the night, she’s finally better”. But no, another night where she starts touching me, then puts on a movie and tells me that I should “calm down”.
I want to tell her this isn’t okay with me, but how do I go about it without making myself out to be a sexed crazed asshole? I like this girl for more then the sex, but I can’t handle another night of this. I also don’t want to blow up and have a huge fight over it.
TL;DR: Broke my girlfriend’s vagina, haven’t had sex in two months, she keeps teasing me, I get more and more frustrated.
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