…but I’ve been having sex for a few years.
I lost my virginity when I was just shy of 15 to my boyfriend of the time. He was on the smaller side of average, but definitely not tiny. It was slightly uncomfortable, but I didn’t bleed. We were together for a while and had plenty of sex.
I am now just shy of 19. Between my first fuck and current boyfriend, I was with two guys who had huge dicks. One was a long term boyfriend and the other way a hook up for two months at the beginning of this summer. I decidedly prefer rough sex to that gentle love-making bullshit.
I recently started dating my current boyfriend. He’s not as big as the last two guys that I have had sex with, but he’s probably rougher. He’s also uncircumcised, if that makes any difference. Anyway, the first time we had sex there was no issue. The second and third time, however, I bled. He was incredibly calm about it but I freaked out. He assured me it wasn’t anything to worry about and said that we probably just needed to use lube, and it probably had something to do with my size.
However, upon a recent re-examination of the area, there seems to have been change. There is less skin (or membrane or whatever) covering the opening to my vaginal canal. I know (and have known) that this is exactly where and what the hymen is, but I thought that I was open enough that I definitely did not have a hymen. After all, I’ve been having plenty of sex for roughly four years! It has, however, always kind of hurt, which is no longer the case. It was never enough pain where I thought it was a problem, but enough where I noticed. I always just thought that this was because I’m very thin, in the bone-structure way. I’m a true size double zero in pants, which is to say a size go-somewhere-else at a store with vanity sizing.
Is it possible that I’ve been having sex for years without my hymen breaking? I feel like this is an absurd hypothesis but it’s the only thing that makes sense. Is there any other possibility? I tried to provide as much information as possible, though if I left anything necessary out please let me know. I am very confused right now.
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