I’m so happy I had to share! I’m 24F and have always been pretty horny. I masturbated regularly throughout my teens and early twenties. I would cum at least once a day, sometimes many more, but always from masturbating in the exact same (intense) fashion.
Unfortunately, when I started having sex, I realized that I had given my poor clit such a bruising over the years that I had developed something of a ‘death grip’ problem. No matter how hard a guy tried, he would never even get close. That would make my partners frustrated, embarrassed and sometimes angry with me, which made me nervous and even less able to enjoy their attempts. Eventually, each partner would give up, which was usually a relief to me. I thought my sex life was still pretty good, and I resigned myself to never cumming from anyone else’s touch.
Fast forward to my current amazing (redditor!) boyfriend. When we started having sex, I told him my issue. Where other guys had either accused me of being ‘weird’ or decided that this revelation meant that they were off the hook for even trying to make me cum, he was supportive and giving.
Before I met this man, I hated having oral sex performed on me, mostly because I was ashamed of my body, particularly my pussy. It’s amazing what a difference enthusiasm from the giver makes. My self-doubt and loathing went out the window the first time he ate me out. I love that he loves it so much- I love hearing and feeling him moan into my pussy and watching his eyes drink me in… There is nothing like it. Not to mention he is incredibly good at it. I went from hating oral sex to asking for it in about a week.
I have experimented before with trying to make myself more sensitive to different types of sensations by not masturbating in my usual way and buying toys, but it never worked. Usually I’d only last about 2 weeks before I would break down and go back to my old tricks. With my boyfriend I tried a new technique. We started with me getting myself off while he watched, kissed/fondled me. I had only done this about 3 times before, so it was hard at first, but eventually I got accustomed to it. Then we moved him into a more active role- I’d get myself really close and then he’d slip his cock inside of me while I finished myself. Or, I’d bring myself right to the edge and let him push me into an orgasm.
In the past few weeks, I had been getting closer and closer to cumming completely from oral. I found myself tottering right on the edge for what felt like an eternity, unable to finish. It was frustrating, but exciting. Finally, this weekend, as he was eating me out, I felt myself on that same edge. Out of desperation and pure lust, I started rubbing my pussy against his mouth (which he loves, luckily). It was all I needed to send me into one of the most unique and amazing orgasms of my life. It was somehow more delicate, but longer and much more intense. Since then, he has finished me in the same fashion again, except this time I didn’t have to rub my clit against his mouth.
I know this is a long post, but I wanted to boast 🙂 To all the women out there who find themselves unable to cum from a partner, please don’t give up. It took me a long time to find a guy who not only cared enough to try, but was good and made me feel safe. You are not broken and there is hope!
TLDR: Unable to cum from any partner’s touch due to years of bashing away mercilessly at my clit while masturbating. Amazing boyfriend made me cum from oral for the first time.
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