In my wilder youth I have been the Whore of Babylon astride the 7-headed beast. I have been a slayer of virgins and destroyer of worlds. Now, past my prime, Virgin slaying just makes me feel like a cougar.

However, reading all the posts here gave me the impetus to ride my man “like we were going somewhere” I made him growl…he’s never done that before. He said it was the best sex we’d ever had.

So, thank you. Thanks for teaching this old whore new tricks.

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*This is only in cases where it is not a frequent occurrence in a relationship: *

Woman declines sex to her BF/Husband. BF/Husband usually just gets over it.

Man declines sex to his GF/Wife. GF/Wife becomes hostile, cold, distant, blames the man for being ‘made’ to feel worthless, emotional blackmail …. etc

Not all women are like this (and I think it’s far more common in younger women) but I think some women really need to be more conscious that the stereotype of men being crazed horn-dogs is wrong and that from time-to-time it’s completely fair and reasonable to be rejected sexually by your partner. Sometimes guys just don’t feel up for it and women need to just get over it like we’re expected to.

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I posted this awhile ago, but it didn’t reach as many folks as I had hoped… and I believe it’s worth sharing again.

Alright, let me tell you my story. I am a lovely young thing entering my most fertile years. For basically as long as I had been aware of it, I had been highly skeptical of oral sex – specifically, suckin’ cock as delivered to a male. My conception of the deed was assembled from all the depictions of it that I had seen, the kneeling, the ways people talk about it in the media and in real life, all the vulgar insults that sprout from it, etc… In summation I considered giving oral sex to a man to be a demeaning, even degrading act that was shameful and all-around yucky. Would an intelligent, self-respecting young woman of the modern age actually bend to such measures?! Even more influential to my opinion was the experience of my best friend, whose first attempt at oral was, to put it lightly, unpleasant. Luckily, she and her boyfriend are very close and understanding and now it’s just something to laugh at… but that’s another story.

But then I met a wonderful young man of my own, who is very eager to share my sexuality and give me pleasure. The very first time we got up to anything together he went down on me so enthusiastically and lovingly, I was just in awe… and I was a little bit sad because I was afraid I would not be able to return the favor. Even for this boy, whom I love more intensely than anyone for whom I have ever felt anything before, it was hard to imagine myself giving a blow job. Hmm… that word is still repellent, but I’m sure you guys can see where this is going. Now, there was no pressure from my boyfriend (the word he says I use the most to describe us is ‘egalitarian’), but I myself wanted to do for him as he had done for me… delightfully. And I am not one to turn down something I have not actually experienced myself. My wonderful boyfriend said he didn’t want me to do anything I wasn’t comfortable with, yet he did tell me he wanted it, when I was ready. He even said based on our delicious kissing adventures that I would probably be pretty good at it if I tried, and inside I knew it too. So I reflected with great profundity, and looked about for some advice. Heh, thanks a lot, reddit!

So just last evening we were cuddling and my boyfriend gently suggested I give it a go, and I figured, ‘carpe diem!’ and took him in. I made sure to cover my teeth, and tried really hard not to picture myself from outside, meaning that I kept all my focus on him and every tremor of his body. I just kept up a steady rhythm and occasionally embellished with my tongue, all the while he was holding my hand and letting out helpless little sighs, and when he came I tightened my grip on his shaft and under my fingers, inside my mouth, under his skin I could feel the cum surge up… His taste was not as strong as I had expected and I even managed to swallow most of it, not that it made any difference to him at that moment. I finished up with some gentle kisses and then we just gazed into each others’ eyes. He held me and asked me how it was, and I told him honestly that I loved feeling such a level of control over him. He looked at me and said softly, “Complete control…”

And that is the point that I want to share with anyone who cares to hear. A few months ago I could barely imagine myself going down on a guy – it was just a personal revulsion. But now I have done just what I had previously feared, and the one word I would use to describe the way I feel is not ‘degraded’ or ‘shamed’: it is ‘empowered’. I never thought that sucking a penis could be so enjoyable for both parties involved. Just as my boyfriend confided in me, and I could feel for myself, holding him inside my mouth gave me total control over his entire being for a few beautiful minutes… and he was so grateful and I was so content, the whole experience was immensely positive. I felt proud of myself and, again, I felt powerful to have been able to evoke such an intense response from him. It brought us closer than ever.

So I suppose, if you are trepidatious about giving head to the man you love, have a little faith in yourself and show him and you what you can do. I am personally so glad that I did something I was afraid of. Now I feel even more confident in myself and generous towards my boyfriend, and the love we share has grown another bond.

Update: We went at it again today, everything was sunny and warm, and he told me he experienced one of the most intense orgasms he has ever had… It’s all good.

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So I recently became acquainted (read: hooked-up with) a man who just recently came out. He just had sex with a man for the first time in his life recently, and enjoyed it a whole lot.

When we were together, I introduced him to being completely caressed and touched, to rimming, to finger-banging, and to the concept of dominance as the top in oral sex.

We are nowhere in the relationship/dating category. My goal with him is to slowly open his world up to new experiences in sex with men; what else can I expose him to?

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Uh hi. I have never posted before and haven’t had the courage til now. I don’t seem to find pleasure…ever. I mean, I have experimented with masturbation, but I think it’s just weird. Is it because I’ve never had sex? Is it because I need a man to stimulate it? How do I actually experience the pleasure part?

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Britney doesn’t need to work nights slinging candy to the financial district happy hour droves. She uses her lollipop charm to lure men into the late night darkness of bars where she knows the bartender will let her “close up shop”.
It’s a sexy game that thrills her hidden cock even just to think about. She’s already hard by the time she finds a man to use.
Tonight, it’s an accountant with nothing better to do than drink to last call. Britney can tell from the minute they meet that she will own this man, that he will resist at first, but simply not be able to deny himself the chance to suck her cock, to let her slip into his ass and fuck him until he cums for the second time in one night.

Ugh, Regina, you think just because you were walking around like a naked dryad born from the belly of a hot spring the likes of which mortal man has never seen that that means you can be on the cover of Smug Magazine with your tits out. More

She’d been thinking about two for sometime. The idea of it haunted her dreams and daytime fantasies.

When she’d see two men together, walking down the street or sitting shoulder to shoulder at a bar, she couldn’t help herself.

She’d imagine the three of them together.

How would it begin? Who would make the first move? How would it play out?

Flirting would lead to conversation. Conversation to a kiss, a kiss to touching. The men would smile and wink. She would feel flushed, wet with anticipation. She would invite them back to her place. Both men.

She imagined one man kissing

What makes up the perfect man?

hoobastank:

Friday night. Natalie Portman is having some fun.

Edit: Lost 1 follower because of a girl masturbating? Man, u prude.