Hmmm… What’s insulting, reductive and straight-up shitty about the new ads for .XXX? Maybe that porn is not, in fact, moving its prime .com real estate to .XXX? Maybe that women are not pieces of sexualized furniture? Maybe that the women in porn are people – not objects 24-7? Maybe that a representation of a [...]

Ok I just want to make a point to my husband…or maybe it’s just me…I guess I will see. To the ladies on here…when looking at pictures of hot guys do you feel the need to masturbate to him? Ok so here’s the next question…I tend to look at porn with females. The female body is just hotter. Yes guys are hot but in my opinion a chick has to be in porn for me to masturbate to…so ladies tell me how it is to you..

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I would assume it to be a somewhat regular request for most guys, but it makes me uncomfortable even though I do enjoy porn sometimes myself. I feel this way because when I’m going down on him and he’s watching a porn, he just STARES at the monitor. He doesn’t respond to what I’m doing or look at me, so I feel like I might as well not be there. I feel like a sex object and he should just be jerking himself off. I give 110% every time we have sex, I do things that are way out of my comfort zone because I am willing to try them for him because I know they make him happy. I feel his focuses should be on me as mine are on him. So when we decide to be intimate, and he’s staring at a fucking computer screen, it makes me want to punch him in the head. Please help?

Edit: I have told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he hacks it up to me being insecure about him watching another girl. Yes, this did bother me in the past, but I’ve kind of gotten over it by realizing that porn isn’t really about the people, it’s about the actions. However, this obviously wasn’t the only element that made me uncomfortable about the act. I’ve yet to explain to him how I feel in the terms above as they are a rather new revelation to me, but I somehow feel that he’ll find a way to explain my feelings away. If he does so and leaves me feeling invalidated, what do I do? Is there something I can say? Or does this mean I should just move on?

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Private Porn – Sasha Grey

Feminist founder of worldwide phenom women’s porn paysite For The Girls captured the vibe of the Berlin Porn Festival in her mini-documentary (above). A longer version of the doc will appear at For The Girls on November 29th featuring X-rated footage, plus moments from the Chatroulette session that turned into a live sex show. Berlin [...]

Slate discovers James Deen (above, playing a vampire overlord for Kink) and suggests that commercial porn lacks attractive men because the makers are homophobic and cater to male viewers’ homophobia. He is right. However, I don’t think men are inherently homophobic and that making porn that turns on straight women in and of itself makes [...]

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Now I am not against porn at all. But I was in a shitty mood going to sleep last night at his place. Huffy not wanting to socialize….just calm down and zonk out. Some cuddling occurs and a question. “Do you want to watch porn (I don’t remember….he had me at porn)?” Watched it….and oh my god, fucking fantastic watching it intimately. I’m going to take another shower now…happy weekend sexit!

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The other night, my boyfriend and I were at a hotel in the midst of our vacation. We’d fooled around, but I was still rearing to go–but he’d already fallen asleep. I pulled out my phone, browsed a mobile porn site, and found a promising video. I tried turning down the volume while the video was loading so as not to disturb him, but my phone case obstructed the button and I wasn’t quick enough.

Queue hot girl moaning. He snaps awake instantly (go figure) and pounces on me. I toss my phone underneath me to suppress the sound, but the jig is up. It was only a five minute video, so I was hoping it could play out before I was totally found out. Nope! Under the pretense of cuddling, he puts his head on my stomach, hoping to hear what’s going on. I grabbed my phone from under me and the moaning and dirty talk from the video filled the room. I rushed to the bathroom to shut the damn thing off amid his laughter. I even had to admit that it was pretty damn hilarious, though I was blushing to my hairline at the time. We definitely got a good laugh out of it.

My reaction might seem extreme. Some of you probably think I should have just showed him or something, but it wasn’t the time. He’s a pretty vanilla guy and I’m slowly bringing him to “the dark side”, as I call it. I really didn’t know how he’d take my lesbian fetish porn choice, complete with golden shower ending and I’d like to avoid scaring him off. Taking it slow and whatnot.

Anyway, that’s my misadventure with porn. Anyone else have any stories?

TL;DR Watching porn next to boyfriend in bed, sound wakes him up, hilarity ensues.

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Female indie porn director Courtney Trouble is tired of Big Porn telling her to edit consensual fisting out of her indie porn films to gain “mainstream” acceptance – and get distribution though their hallowed, shriveling channels. In the first week of October, beloved queer porn star Jiz Lee and adored director Courtney Trouble announced they [...]