In my wilder youth I have been the Whore of Babylon astride the 7-headed beast. I have been a slayer of virgins and destroyer of worlds. Now, past my prime, Virgin slaying just makes me feel like a cougar.

However, reading all the posts here gave me the impetus to ride my man “like we were going somewhere” I made him growl…he’s never done that before. He said it was the best sex we’d ever had.

So, thank you. Thanks for teaching this old whore new tricks.

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Trustworthy or no? Has anyone used it? good experiences? Worth using?

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So my girlfriend and I have a healthy sex life and everything has been going great. However, she has recently explained to me that she would really be turned on more if I was more dominant during sex. I’m not a very dominant person so I would like some tips on how I can be what she wants. She isn’t into S&M.

EDIT: She likes very mild bondage (scarves tied around hands and stuff)

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I’m curious to know how offensive it is to you if a guy refuses to kiss you after you’ve given him a blowjob (with or without cum involved). This sort of thing wouldn’t bother me (kissing a girl who’s just blown me) but both of my friends’ responses fell into the “no fucking way” category. I want to know how the girls of r/sex feel about this situation.

UPDATE: So I showed the thread to one of the two guys I was talking with earlier. He’s reconsidering his position, saying he might feel differently about that situation, having read all of your responses.

In the spring of last year, my wife and I bought an old house with the intent to tear down the house and build a new one there. The planning and permitting process has proceeded slowly, so we have this functioning but empty house that isn’

My lady has a lot of long days, and seems to lack the desire all too often to get things heated up! I want to hear your best initiating moves so I can rouse her from her frequent malaise, /r/sex!

Give me that one thing that either always works for your lady, or if you are a lady, that one thing that makes your toes curl and your hair raise, and always ends up with you getting good and fucked!

In the words of C. Falcon, “Show me your moves!”

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is that appropriate? if yes, then how does one bring it up? what setting.

edit: i dont really want to wait until she gets tested. so i would rather take her word for it if she says no, and just wear a condom. and then maybe later on get tested. but i think its worth asking so if she knows that she an std then she will tell me.

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So me and my fiance have been together for nearly 7 years. I’m 27, she’s 31. Throughout our sex life it’s always been pretty vanilla. We’ll have some foreplay where I play with her nipples and rub her clit a bit, or maybe she’ll go down on me. Afterwards, we’ll fuck. Our positions are, again, pretty standard. Missionary, Doggy, Cowgirl/Reverse cowgirl.

I’ve been thinking for a while about ways we could spice up our sex life. She’s never been a particularly adventurous girl, and I suppose if I’m honest, I’ve never been a particularly adventurous guy. But for a while now, I’ve been feeling like there’s something seriously lacking in our relationship. (edit: I meant to say there’s something lacking in our sexual relationship. Our non-sexual relationship has been great)

I spoke to her about the mojoupgrade website and she kind of laughed it off. I know she looked at it, because she mentioned some of the funnier questions (e.g. Brown showers) in conversation, but she never agreed to do the test.

Anyway – to get to the point…she sat me down out of the blue yesterday and said she’d decided she did want to try new things and her fantasy was to get fucked by a group of black men while I watched.

I was pretty shocked by this, as she’d never given any indication she was interested in anything other than a monogamous relationship. My emotions were all over the place, as suddenly she was not just talking about about improving our sex life, but bringing someone else in. Actually, bringing multiple people in. I told her I was a bit taken aback and I’d need to think about it. We haven’t said a word about it since the conversation, but it’s clear she’s waiting for an answer.

I don’t even know where to begin on how I feel about this… On one hand, I’m thinking that I’m not enough for her, or too boring, and the only way she’d be happy to stay with me is if she can fuck other people. Also, the fact that she specified “black” guys implies she’s looking for big dicks, which is making me a bit self-conscious about my ability to satisfy her. Also, I don’t understand the part about wanting me to be there to see her fucked. Is it about humiliating me, or is it about her feeling safe?

On the other hand, I would be lying if I said the whole idea of seeing her being ravaged by a group of guys didn’t turn me on a bit. The racial aspect also seems to add a bit of spice to the whole thing.

So Reddit – advice is needed! My fiance was good enough to talk to me about this shit before doing anything…but now I don’t know what to do with the information and I don’t know which side of my brain to listen to. The part that feels humiliated and degraded, or the part that feels a bit turned on.

Advice and guidance will be most gratefully received…

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