So me and my fiance have been together for nearly 7 years. I’m 27, she’s 31. Throughout our sex life it’s always been pretty vanilla. We’ll have some foreplay where I play with her nipples and rub her clit a bit, or maybe she’ll go down on me. Afterwards, we’ll fuck. Our positions are, again, pretty standard. Missionary, Doggy, Cowgirl/Reverse cowgirl.

I’ve been thinking for a while about ways we could spice up our sex life. She’s never been a particularly adventurous girl, and I suppose if I’m honest, I’ve never been a particularly adventurous guy. But for a while now, I’ve been feeling like there’s something seriously lacking in our relationship. (edit: I meant to say there’s something lacking in our sexual relationship. Our non-sexual relationship has been great)

I spoke to her about the mojoupgrade website and she kind of laughed it off. I know she looked at it, because she mentioned some of the funnier questions (e.g. Brown showers) in conversation, but she never agreed to do the test.

Anyway – to get to the point…she sat me down out of the blue yesterday and said she’d decided she did want to try new things and her fantasy was to get fucked by a group of black men while I watched.

I was pretty shocked by this, as she’d never given any indication she was interested in anything other than a monogamous relationship. My emotions were all over the place, as suddenly she was not just talking about about improving our sex life, but bringing someone else in. Actually, bringing multiple people in. I told her I was a bit taken aback and I’d need to think about it. We haven’t said a word about it since the conversation, but it’s clear she’s waiting for an answer.

I don’t even know where to begin on how I feel about this… On one hand, I’m thinking that I’m not enough for her, or too boring, and the only way she’d be happy to stay with me is if she can fuck other people. Also, the fact that she specified “black” guys implies she’s looking for big dicks, which is making me a bit self-conscious about my ability to satisfy her. Also, I don’t understand the part about wanting me to be there to see her fucked. Is it about humiliating me, or is it about her feeling safe?

On the other hand, I would be lying if I said the whole idea of seeing her being ravaged by a group of guys didn’t turn me on a bit. The racial aspect also seems to add a bit of spice to the whole thing.

So Reddit – advice is needed! My fiance was good enough to talk to me about this shit before doing anything…but now I don’t know what to do with the information and I don’t know which side of my brain to listen to. The part that feels humiliated and degraded, or the part that feels a bit turned on.

Advice and guidance will be most gratefully received…

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I’ve never been with a virgin before, and I tend to forget how -ahem- unexplored she is. I’ve never had a problem with girls getting sore before, but I end up rubbing her raw. It really limits our sessions. After about an hour of fingering or eating out and she’s too sore to continue. What can I do to alleviate this?

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Riley Reid isn’t nominated for anything at AVN this year, nor is she doing anything too unusual or eye-catching at the moment (besides being Jules Jordan’s latest “Ultimate Fuck Toy”), we just want to write about her because she’s adorable and slutty, and we think she’s going to be a big part of your masturbation habits in 2012. More

My girlfriend has a rare physical mutation in which there is a second anus directly behind her first anus, and a third directly behind her second. My nickname for her is meta anus, lol. Also, whenever we get in little spats and she calls me an asshole, I respond by calling her “assholes”.

Anyway, I’ve recently been desiring to attempt anal, or shall I say anals, sex with her but she’s super insecure about it. Any advice on how I can get her to be more comfortable with the idea? I told her she need not worry about what I’ll think. I reassured her that it couldn’t be any worse than face fucking the Predator, and in highschool I did, in fact, hump the mouth hole of a latex Predator mask. She’s still on the fence though. Help Reddit!

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My GF is incredible: kind, smart, ambitious, funny, has the body of a pornstar and loves me a great deal. Only problem is, i’m extremely sexual and she’s not at all.

A little background, i’m early 30s, she’s mid-20s and hadn’t really dated before we started up (3 years ago), also hadn’t had sex. She’s willing to try things that aren’t too esoteric (swallowing is pretty much out, anal same, etc), but she just isn’t horny. Ever. It’s killing me, because she literally makes me drool but she’d rather just watch TV together… wtf do i do? How i turn a housewife into a whore?

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This lady right here! And she’s not going home until she’s played with her giant anal beads and intimidating inflatable butt plug. If we didn’t know better, we’d swear that was Bobbi Starr. More

I like it when my wife comes out of nowhere with that look in her eye, straddles me and starts kissing me. We make out for a long time before she throws me down on the bed, pins my hands down and sticks her boobs in my face, teasing me at first and then demanding that I suck on her hard nipples, all the while she’s got me pinned down. I act like I’m struggling and trying to free myself (I can bench press three times her) and she’s using all her force to pin me down. She then straddles my face and basically face rapes me. Her juices really begin flowing as I work my tounge magic. Right when she starts cumming, in the height of ecstacy, she holds me down tighter and squeezes her legs like a vice around my head. At this point she’s spent. Weak from her struggle and still writhing in pleasure, it’s my turn to return the favor. I free myself and in return pin her down and penetrate her very sensitive love box. She struggles, screams in pleasure and scratches the shit out of my back and bum. She’ll cum constantly while I pound her until she gives me the signal that she can’t take much more and I’ll finish inside her. After this, she’ll take a long nap, and wake up and do it all over again. Sexitt, how do you like your rough sex?

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We have a new favourite – Melissa Jacobs. She’s just unreal – she squirts, she fucks for days and rocks the machines while tied up. She has a drill pull her hair while The Shockspot devours her pussy. We can’t get enough of Melissa. She’s unstoppable and the machines have crushes on her. This long update is a testament to her stamina.

My wife thinks body fluids are disgusting. The primary issue is precum, “It’s icky” are her thoughts on the matter.

Where this hasn’t impacted our sex lives negatively, this means I am unable to receive oral from her. She isn’t opposed to the act, since we have tried with condoms before (but I find that this desensitizes things to the point where it’s not even pleasurable.) Even hand-jobs are a challenge for her and I feel bad for even asking since I can tell she’s really uncomfortable getting her hands sticky.

I have no problems going down on her, but it does take quite a lot of coercion before she will let me. She can’t see why I would actually enjoy body fluids like that and it makes her squeamish.

Any ideas of how I can help her overcome this?

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Throwaway here. She “revealed” that she’s been watching Casting Couch. She was very upset with herself because it’s all about using women. She kept saying that it shouldn’t turn her on and that she’s ashamed of herself. That only men should use that porn. I tried to explain that sometimes weird stuff turns us on. If it’s violent or dangerous maybe we should really analyze what we’re watching. But that I didn’t think it’s a bad thing.

She didn’t remember telling me about it this morning. So I really doubt she remembers me comforting her with it either. But she was visibly upset.

Reddit what would you say to her about her porn choices? She’s a Redditor too and I don’t think she’d be upset with this. I just want her to know that it’s OK to explore sometimes. I don’t want her to be ashamed. What can I say to her that might click.

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