[Story ID: 5856] So, sexxit- My bf and I have a long distance relationship going on (after a year of not so long distance) and I’d like something to spice up our (currently non existant) sex-life. The difficult thing is that there are a lot of restrictions that get in the way of the usual [...]
[Story ID: 5372] (F) 19 here, I’ve recently started a sexual relationship with a nice guy. It’s new and fresh and all that good stuff but he’s pretty shy. Not only is he shy socially but in bed as well. He doesn’t partake in dirty talk much or act aggressively. I’m not looking for anything [...]
[Story ID: 5034] Questions like: How do I get my girlfriend to initiate sex? How can I make my boyfriend come from a BJ? Did she have an orgasm? I have a friend with benefits but I want it to be more serious… What should I do with my girlfriends nipples? How do I blow [...]
[Story ID: 4688] My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and have a happily sexually active for a while now. He’s the first and only person I’ve ever been with, but he’s always incredibly understanding and really does make sure everything’s nice. Despite being completely comfortable, however, I am completely [...]
[Story ID: 4403] Brief background – I’ve known this girl since high school, but it’s only been in the last year that we’ve hit it off. Texting, flirting, spending a lot of time together. Alas, we are both returning to our respective colleges at the end of this week. But the entire summer has been [...]
[Story ID: 3806] So a friend of mine is looking needs a sperm donor and I have no problem with donation– it’s a great thing to help someone have a child– except that I have a little problem…. I have HPV. I always thought that it only spread through contact but, apparently, mere sperm itself [...]
[Story ID: 2628] Today is the day of my talk Sexual Survival for Geeks at SXSW 2011. The whole suite of bonus materials for my talk can be found at mobile-friendly, work-safe page thetotalflirt.com/SXSEXY – and the links to everything are below. As soon as I get any audio or video from the talk, I’ll [...]
[Story ID: 2527] It’ll be like explaining how to survive a zombie geek sex apocalypse in the hallways, parties and sessions at SXSW. And I can’t wait. On Friday, March 11 at 5pm in the Austin Convention Center, I’ll be giving the talk and presentation, The Sexual Survival Guide for Geeks. In it, I’ll hopefully [...]
[Story ID: 1403] Talk about sex with your partner. I constantly see posts where people ask for advice, when the answer to nearly every question is simple: talk to your partner. If you cannot have a conversation with someone you are sleeping with (let alone in a relationship with) about sex, then you are not [...]
[Story ID: 420] She’s ready to make your body talk.