20 year old female here (well, duh)

So, I’ve always masturbated kinda weirdly. I cross my legs and squeeze, and eventually, boom goes the dynamite. Pretty cool. Takes about 10 minutes, and I don’t even need to take off my clothes.

The problem is, I couldn’t get off any other way. My own fingers didn’t work, and no guy could get me off either. I still haven’t had sex yet, so I can’t tell you much there. I thought about buying a toy to try it out, but I always felt kinda embarrassed at the thought of having something like a purple vibrating dildo sitting in my drawer. However, I’d heard of the ever so popular Hitachi Magic Wand, a “massager” used for other (better) things. But it was pricey, and I wasn’t about to shell out that kinda cash.

Now, a few months ago I was put on Zoloft – It killed my sex drive, which is okay, since I don’t have a boyfriend. Then a few weeks ago, I had Wellbutrin added to my treatment, and Wellbutrin does… quite the opposite, which is NOT okay, since I don’t have a boyfriend.

In comes Newegg’s black friday sale, where the Magic Wand was ~$42 after tax and shipping. so I thought, why not. It’s pretty innocuous, and I could probably use it for it’s intended purpose too.

best decision ever

I tried it out today (after smoking a ton of pot). After getting used to it, and then finding what felt good, it wasn’t before long that I had my first O. And then another. and another. and another…. half an hour later, I’d lost count of how many times i’d gotten off. I’m still feeling some residual tingling, and resisting the urge pick up the wand again.

I’m so excited. Right after I closed my porn I went straight to r/sex. Thought you might enjoy another success story.

good god. i need some water or something.

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So I just had to share this as I thought this coy yet intimate initiation of sex was one of her best yet!

After coming home from a drab day at work, I was surprised by a bubbly and excitable fiancee tending to my every need. Before I knew it, we had finished dinner and watched some TV and my fiancee decided it would be a perfect time for us to play a game of tag, right there on the couch. “Tag your it,” she exclaimed in her cute little voice, letting me know she wanted me to play back. So, we sat there and “tagged” each other until she got up, for what I thought was her going to the kitchen to get some liquids. Instead she slapped my knee yelling “TAG YOUR IT!” and ran off to the bedroom.

Of course, like any male with a penis, I ran after her. I think the best part here was that I was not expecting sex AT ALL. I thought this great little game COMPLETELY threw me off and it wasn’t until we were rolling around in bed tickling each other and ripping off our cloths that I realized I was in for a treat! Some amazing AMAZING sex was had by with orgasms by all.

Just thought I would share that sometimes initiating sex can be fun, exciting and surprising!

Girls, take a lesson!

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Ok, this is a new problem. The other night, my girlfriend and I were talking, and she was giving me an old-fashioned. Well, she kind of stopped, and looked at my penis and said, “I’ve always thought these looked really weird.” Not out of the ordinary (kind of random, but I see where she can think that). Well, we started talking, and she finally admitted that she really didn’t like my penis and thought it was ugly. I don’t know what to think now. I feel kind of dejected and insulted, and I really want to talk to her about it, but not sure how to go about actually bringing it up. I’ve been recovering from really low self-esteem and thought I had it under control, but this was kind of a hit below the belt (no pun intended). I am also a very sexual person and love all aspects about sex: foreplay, intercourse, exploration, whatever, and she is very inexperienced (only been with one or two guys) so I already knew I would be the more experienced one (which was not a problem). However, I’m starting to feel she doesn’t like sex at all, and that added on top of the whole “ugly penis” thing, it’s kind of eye-opening. I want to add that I really do like this girl and we’ve only been dating for a very short time (about a month and a half) and I really don’t want to be a shallow asshole. But I’m kind of lost for words here. Help?

EDIT: I just wanted to add that she said she is willing to try new things for me, but I’m starting to really doubt that. I may just be over reacting to that, but it’s one thing to want to do things for your SO, and another thing to want to do them for yourself.

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Every time we think we know something about Skin Diamond, she changes our minds. We thought she was 100% alt-porn and then suddenly she’s working with Elegant Angel. We thought she was from Europe and it turns out she’s from everywhere. Today, we’re getting our facts straight. More

Remember all those mats that you had in gym class in high school? And how, in your horniest teenage moments you thought, “I wonder if those would be comfortable enough to have sex on?” Well, these people are going to show you. More

(20 years old, male) I was at a party with my old friends. The plan for the night was just to get drunk/have fun with the bros. I never plan on hooking up with girls because I just assume they wouldnt want to with me anyways. So we start playing beer pong, drinking, and everything. Then these girls show up. I was decently hammered already, but continued to drink with my friends and these girls. I noticed one girl was “into me” i guess. She was all over me and getting touchy feely. We walked to the beach and started making out…a lot. about 20 minutes of blurry make-out session passed we go back to the house. then my mind goes blank for a little. Next thing i know, we are in the bedroom with the lights off. I lay her on the bed and we continue to make out some more. I continue to kiss her everywhere and slowly start taking off her clothes. She is then topless and im all over her squeezing, sucking those tits. etc. At this point, i knew we were gonna do the nasty and i was gonna finally lose my virginity. I take her pants/thong off. Shes naked, and i continue to caress her and kiss her everywhere. This is where the problem starts… my penis… its not getting hard. (damn alcohol) before this time, i thought the term “whiskey dick” was just a myth and thought it would be really easy getting hard if your drunk as balls. But i guess i was wrong. So i figured i buy some time. I slowly start moving down south and kissing her. (this is where those hours of watching porn come in). So… i start eating her out then fingering her at the same time. She is moaning and breathing heavily and pulling my hair/grabbing my head harder. Im pretty sure I made her cum (im not quite sure). but she was enjoying the hell out of it and i thought it was hot as hell. So I start getting hard. (its about time) so in my head im like “yes!” So this girl i was about to get with, who was noticeably younger than I, probably 18, didnt know i was a virgin. Me being kinda a nervous because its my first time, I tell her. “hey, can i tell you something… im still a virgin.” then she stops. “are you serious? -yes, im not kidding. i said” … it was hard for her to believe because she says “but your hot”..”how are you still a virgin?” -”i just am” i said. So in my head im thinking “what the fuck is wrong with me.” then she says as shes kissing my neck and whispers into my ears “i like that.” “i think its cool you are still a virgin.” Then she goes a little crazy and starts kissing me harder, pulling my head/hair, feeling my back and shoulders. (this is great, it actually worked) i thought to myself… or so i thought :/. Me being really drunk, she finally slows down the pace and says “but you know what?… i think your first time you should be sober so you can remember it” At this point i didnt know what to think, i was glad but also disappointed.. I thought it made sense but at the same time i thought i was ready. So then i said.. “okay”.. ( plus my dick was still not working properly…damn whiskey dick.) then I went back to eating her out and fingering her for probably a good 10 min. and that was that. Id thought id share it with you guys. TL;DR: Met girl at party. I was super drunk. Was about to lose my V-card. Got whiskey dick. Did not penetrate anything. It was a blur

If i learned anything from this experience it is … dont get so fucking drunk and that some girls think im hot and want to fuck. (confidence boost there.)

As of right now, i dont know how to feel, did i do the right thing? It is still a blur in my head, but should I have just fucked her anyway? Has any guy had this experience before?

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I’m 21, female, and I’d like to publicly give some sort of hooray for my advances in the last year.

When I turned 19 I self-diagnosed myself with sexual adversion disorder. The lable made me feel a bit better about the fact that even the idea of a penis inside of me made me run and hide. I always thought I was a messed up girl for not wanting to have sex with anyone. It would depress me at moments, knowing that I desired sex but couldn’t emotionally go through with it. I honestly thought I would die a virgin.

I didn’t know the problem was that I just needed someone to be there for me. I needed to find a guy that I could really trust. I always thought I was the weird one for not wanting to have sex as soon as a met a guy, but, after being with my current boyfriend, I now know that’s not the case.

I’ve been with him for a year now, and with his help I’ve gone from “frigid bitch” to engaging in spontanious anal. I even bought my very first toy! Not only that, but with his friendship I’ve been able to finally feel secure in my true sexuality after years of denying it.The best thing about the transition is that I knew he wanted me to be happy. He didn’t help me just to have sex with me but so that I could learn to enjoy the act.

TL;DR: Non-dairy creamer is flammable.

edit: fixed the thermostat

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Hey sexxit.

I recently started a friends-with-benefits relationship with a girl, and have discovered a problem… I can’t come.

Before meeting her, at least for the last year or so, every time i had sex with a woman, i was at least somewhat under the influence of alcohol, and thought that was the problem.

however, now that i’m having more sober sex, i find myself with the same problem. it takes me a ridiculous amount of effort to cum… and the longer i keep pumping away, the harder it is for me to focus on climaxing.

i don’t take any medications, and i never thought of myself as masturbating with a “death grip” as i’ve heard people mention.

what can i do to speed up my orgasm? oral sex doesn’t help because quite frankly, she’s just not that good at it. sex feels great, but i’d really like to be able to finish… it’s pretty embarrassing, as you can imagine.

thanks.

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**Throwaway. My SO and various other friends roam the Reddit universe.

I was reading a submission a while ago (can’t find the link, unfortunately) about who you’ve always wanted to have sex with but couldn’t because of an SO. It was an interesting topic, and I really enjoyed reading it. Most of it was pretty standard, like “uptight boss” or “girlfriend’s best friend”, and some of it was pretty out-there and fun to hear. It was great to see people being so candid, and was also very reassuring that it was understood “of course, I love my SO enough to keep from doing it.”

But then I began thinking about who I would have sex with, and I drew a blank. I realized that the thought of having sex with someone other than my SO, even someone who I am ridiculously attracted to, makes me feel sick. The thought of putting a not-my-boyfriend’s-penis inside of me is such a huge turnoff. Just the thought of lying in bed with someone who is not my boyfriend, pre- or post-coitus, makes me cringe.

I am curious as to whether this is unusual. I know that humans are sexual creatures, and it doesn’t strike me as odd that people would want to sleep with someone other than their SO. But I’m just not feeling it for anyone else.

TL;DR – I don’t want to have sex with anyone other than my SO. Does anyone else feel the same way?

EDIT: For those who are addressing it, I have had plenty of casual sex encounters, all of which were rather enjoyable and completely emotional-ties-free. I have never had the problem of separating sex and feelings.

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First of all, Trojan makes vibrators? I don’t know why this is surprising to me; it seems like a natural progression, after all. Even more surprising is that Trojan’s vibrator, which I thought would be boring, was actually decent. More