He seems to like when I’m on top, but I have no idea what I’m doing so feel like I’m bad at it. Once, I was trying to get comfortable and kind of shifted my hips in a little circle. That has gotten the biggest reaction so far.

I’m not sure if he cums every time (we’ve only really done it enough times to count on both hands, however), because he gets up pretty fast to throw away the condom. I have only ever orgasmed when he has fingered me. I just need to work up the confidence to guide his hand to my clit when he’s in me. That would do the trick.

But yeah… any tips for how to please a hard to satisfy guy? What feels best when a girl is on top? Any tricks? What about for missionary position? What have you found works best? Those are the only two we’ve tried (and I haven’t had the confidence to try giving him a blowjob yet. In all honesty, I’m afraid I would have his penis in my face and not know what to do with it).

Seriously, any advice, tricks, tips, hints would be helpful!

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I’m a male who used to go hours without finishing with my girlfriend. Then as I became more and more attracted to her, I started finishing and the time cut down quite a bit and now I want to last longer like I have before. Kegels haven’t proved successful so I’m looking for any other tips or advice. Thank you sexxit!

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Should socks be worn in the bedroom/in bed? If not, how do you take them off without looking utterly stupid? Any other sly accessory tips?

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Obvious throwaway is obvious.

My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship. We rarely see each other and deal with the sexual tension by having Skype sex. Although I am very willing and eager to participate in this and am very confident sexually when we see each other in person, I am almost shy in front of the camera and end up sitting there awkwardly, unsure what to do.

Do any of you have any suggestions on what I could do to keep from feeling awkward? Or any extra tips on how to make our sessions extra sexy? I’m just at a loss on how to rock his cyber world.

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My bf is really turned on by me topping, but I feel like I do it inefficiently and end up bailing pretty quick on the position out of awkwardness and can’t ever get a good rhythm. Any tips?

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I want to be treated like a sex slave. All the time. I want to be tied up and have my hair pulled and have slave bells, I want all of that. I have a boyfriend, and Ive tried for 2 years now to get him to do anything beyond vanilla with me. It’s proven to be incredibly frustrating for me, as I want need to have this done to me, otherwise I don’t get any fulfillment with sex…Any ideas, tips, thoughts, suggestions?

submitted by Gem420 [link] [25 comments]

My SO and I have been trying sex for a while now, and I’m able to orgasm with anything BUT the actual penetration. He and I were both virgins prior to us dating, both of our first real relationships so neither of us have experience. He enjoys our sex, but there’s nothing in there that feels good for me yet. Any tips? (I’m a girl if what I said above doesn’t make that clear)

submitted by Throwaway1995 [link] [3 comments]

I have been thrown up on while recieving a BJ and pissed on mid intercourse and fingering. I am deathly afraid of hitting the trifecta but I am curious about anal. Any tips or anecdotes are welcome.

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My girlfriend and I are going on a long flight soon… any tips/advice on how to join the mile high club? Its a long flight about 5 hours so seems like there is plenty of opportunity and I was hoping for someone experienced in it to give any advice or tips that they had. Thanks in advance!

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