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People in long term relationships: Have you ever gotten used to seeing your SO naked?

14-Nov-11

[Story ID: 5181] In other words, have you reached the point where you aren’t too sexually aroused when your SO is just hanging around nude (e.g. doing laundry)? After how many years did it happen? submitted by denverCO [link] [17 comments]

Im 23 and just had sex for the first time.

13-Sep-11

[Story ID: 4576] Just had to get this off my chest. After an entire life of “gently being let down”, I’ve been scared of all women. So until now, the last intimate contact was a quick, disappointing make-out session a few years ago with someone else. So about a year ago, I became friends with [...]

Women of sexxit…is it easier to orgasm when its a new person?

28-Aug-11

[Story ID: 4426] My wife and I are in an open “polyamory” marriage. My wife has never had an orgasm from me on top in at least 15 years. We have been together for 20 years. Usually she is on top. More recently we introduced toys and even then she had trouble. It’s usually a [...]

how do I get oral back?

16-Jul-11

[Story ID: 3975] The long version, with background: My wife and I were virgins when we met. We moved slowly at first, and she used to say things like “I’ll never do that” to various things (including oral sex) – but then later, she volunteered. For about two years after the relationship become physical we [...]

A bit out of the loop

20-Jun-11

[Story ID: 3680] I am back on the dating scene after a number of years for reasons you could probably guess. I am 29 years old and am going on a date with an 18 year old tomorrow. This is a second date and I’m pretty sure we’re going to have sex. My question is [...]

Ugandas LGBT Activists Get a Temporary Victory

17-May-11

[Story ID: 3318] The reprehensible “anti-gay” bill in Uganda has been dealt a blow by that country’s brave LGBT activists and the world human rights community. In a nation where homosexuality was already illegal, and punishable by 14 years in prison, this law would have made things even worse, establishing the death penalty, among other [...]

Some advice please? Girlfriend does not tell what she likes.

12-Apr-11

[Story ID: 2936] Sorry, I feel embarrassed about this but I need some help. My GF and I have been going out for a strong 5 years (both virgins at start) however I feel left in the dark during sex. My girlfriend has this idea that I have to ‘learn’ what she likes from her [...]

About to dip my toes into the porn industry waters.

06-Apr-11

[Story ID: 2870] For a good two years now (I’m 22 years old and female), I have been thinking of getting into this industry in some shape or form. I want to do things like fetish photography and webcamming. I recently discovered sexyjobs.com, but I am the most newb of newb here, I’m slightly overwhelmed. [...]

Girlfriend says condoms hurt and refuses to go on birth control.

04-Apr-11

[Story ID: 2851] We are both 20 years old. She says that condoms hurt(It feels like its burning afterwards) and she doesn’t like to use them. When we first started messing around, we used them all the time but eventually she got used to doing it without them. We used them consistently for about 1.5 [...]

Long Running Blog High On Sex Abruptly Deleted by Google: Now At Tumblr

18-Mar-11

[Story ID: 2683] This is a twist. Some of you may know the blog High On Sex (new URL) from the times over the years I’ve mentioned them here; it is a very opinionated sex blog that is loved by many, a blog somewhat along the lines of famed Synthetic Pubes. After over five years, [...]

Am I shooting myself in the foot?

23-Feb-11

[Story ID: 2455] I’m 26 and I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 4 years. In short, she’s a hot programmer who likes anal, plus she’s rational, trustworthy, caring, and easy going. What’s the problem then right? At 26, I’ve never experienced what it’s like to be single and I’ve had an overwhelming urge to for [...]

Light at the end of the sexless marriage tunnel …

11-Dec-10

[Story ID: 1730] Hi gang, Thought I’d share my story after reading some questions about sexless marriages. I was married for 13 years (together for 18 years total), and my married sex life sucked. We’d go months without having sex. Finally, I left her… struck out on my own. Met some interesting ladies, had some [...]

Is there some thing about sex that you did not know about that came natural to everyone else?

30-Nov-10

[Story ID: 1618] I thought blowjobs were something done by hookers or porn stars. Wives, girlfriends, and any other female I knew would never do that. I was married 7 years and 27 years old before I found out I was wrong. I am in my sixties and the internet was not around. submitted by [...]

Cyber(Sex) Monday: Top Sex Toys to Give and Get

30-Nov-10

[Story ID: 1620] I felt a pang of solidarity when my friend Veronica expressed her disappointment that “Cyber Monday” was not, in fact, about cybersex. Setting out to remedy this, I finished up my erotic holiday gift guide (a companion to the list, This Year’

I need to learn this crazy sex trick!

14-Oct-10

[Story ID: 1051] A few years ago I hooked up in Mexico. And this girl did this thing to me, where she pressed somewhere around my hip, and it felt awesome. I even remember saying something to her about it, and she laughed as I tried to do it to myself saying, “you can’t do [...]